What Is A BDSM Breeding Kink?

BDSM and breeding kinks are quite closely linked, but the latter is a kink that is rarely spoken about.

A breeding kink relates to a fetish where individuals enjoy the ‘risky’ act of impregnating someone or being impregnated.

This differs from a pregnancy kink, where people feel turned on by seeing pregnant women.

Instead, a breeding kink relates to the risky activities involved in becoming pregnant.

This article will discuss this kink in detail, as well as how it is linked to BDSM.

What Is BDSM?

BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism.

All of these refer to aspects of sex, where there is one dominant partner, who exercises control over their submissive counterpart.

Bondage, for example, refers to restricting a partner's movement by using ropes, handcuffs, or other kinds of restraints.

Discipline refers to the punishment of the submissive partner in order for the dominant party to have control over them.

Dominance is when one partner shows dominance over the other partner during sex or outside the bedroom.

Submission refers to one partner bowing down to their dominant partner’s wishes.

Lastly, sadism and masochism, also known as sadomasochism, involve the pleasure that partners feel when they inflict or experience physical or emotional pain.

There is no one way to practice BDSM.

It can revolve around a number of different scenarios, such as role-play, bondage, wax play, power play, pain play humiliation, and sensory deprivation.

What Is A Breeding Kink?

We’ve all heard about daddy and foot fetishes, but less is known about breeding kinks. This kink is a fantasy based on impregnation.

People who are into this, indulge in the idea of risky and potentially procreative sex.

However, it often doesn’t correlate with a desire to have a baby, but relates more so to the idea of pregnancy, and the risk of it due to unprotected sex.

Sometimes, often men, find it arousing when they think, or see, their partner engaging in sex with another strong male that could potentially impregnate them.

What makes this appeal to individuals are the risks involved in it. This is what makes it cross the line from a biological urge to a kink.

What Are The Risks Associated With The Breeding Kink?

A lot of the time, those who associate with this kink tend to forego protection when engaging in sexual intercourse.

Aside from pregnancy (which a lot of the time isn’t the desire that’s associated with this kink), there are other risks to consider, such as contracting sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

Another risk, especially to vaginas, is contracting a yeast infection, or an imbalance in PH levels.

It is important that both parties understand the risks involved with engaging in this kink, and that consent is given by all the participants.

How Does Breeding Link To BDSM?

While many associate BDSM with bonding, choking, spanking, and restraints, there are other parts of it that are less common, one of these being the breeding kink.

As mentioned earlier, BSDM refers to sexual practices that involve partners granting and relinquishing control.

The idea of impregnating someone is a form of control and is what links this breeding kink to BDSM.

Some people who enjoy this kink feel aroused by the idea that they are deemed worthy to be impregnated and to carry a child, which links into BDSM as the dominant partner is showing them they are worthy of this.

Breeding And BDSM Ideas - Getting Started

If reading the above resonates with you, you may have a BDSM breeding kink.

As this is a kink that is rarely spoken about, it can be tricky knowing how to get started with it, so this article is going to provide you with some pointers on how you can get involved.

Safety

Before practicing any of what has been mentioned in this article, you and your partner must discuss, and be aware of the safety risks associated with this kind of kink.

As this is a kink associated with the risks of becoming pregnant, you must both decide whether you are going to use protection, and if not, you must both be aware and accept the risks that come with not using any condoms or birth control.

Full consent should also be given on both parts.

Birth Control

Nowadays, pregnancy can be a choice and women are in control of their own bodies.

Therefore, engaging in this kink with a reduced risk of becoming pregnant is totally possible with the use of birth control.

This can be in the form of condoms, the contraceptive pill, the implant, the coil, etc. If both parties would like to experience ejaculation without a condom, then the pill, coil, or implant, are the best options.

Bondage

You can have all kinds of fun with bondage if you’re into breeding.

You can use restraints such as ropes, and handcuffs to your sex play, and experiment with all kinds of positions and scenarios.

This is a great way to have fun with the dominant and submissive roles in your relationship. You can take it in turns, or have one partner being the more dominant one.

When it comes to the breeding kink, it is likely that the woman takes on the submissive role, and the dominant partner is the one who will be ejaculating.

Playing Around With Writing

Some people enjoy writing on their partner’s body. One way you can experiment with this kink is by writing on the female’s body.

A phrase you could start with is ‘put a baby in me.’

Sometimes, seeing these written words can really spark an interest in this kink, and you can also write instructions on her body, about how exactly you’re going to put a baby in her.

Acting/Role-Play

If you’re not ready to have a baby, you can act like you’re creating one in order to tap into the fantasy.

The woman may be on the pill, but she can act like she isn’t in order to turn her partner on and play into the kink.

Role-playing also works well with homosexual, and lesbian couples, when it comes to this kink.

For example, two women who want to play into this kink can have the dominant woman wearing a strap-on.

Animal Play

Breeding is an animal instinct, and some people may like to pay homage to this world by pretending to be bred as animals would.

For example, two individuals can act like cows, or dogs by dressing up as them. They can then have sex, and ‘breed’ like these animals would in the wild.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is Gay BDSM Breeding Possible?

When it comes to impregnating each other, this is obviously not possible with same-sex couples.

However, as covered earlier, this kink is more often associated with the risk of pregnancy, rather than pregnancy itself, so it is perfectly achievable for same-sex partners to indulge in this sex via role play.

Same-sex couples can be as creative as they want, such as by wearing strap-ons if they are women, or by dressing up and talking to each other in a certain way to make the other believe they are the opposite sex.

Final Thoughts

To conclude, a breeding kink is when someone fantasizes about the risk of impregnating someone or being impregnated themselves.

This differs from a pregnancy fetish, where someone is turned on by seeing a pregnant woman.

A lot of the time, there is no desire to actually become pregnant when playing around with this kink, it is more centered around the thrill of the risk of it.

This does mean, however, that protection is not used, so the risks surrounding pregnancy and contracting STIs must be discussed and understood by all the parties involved in this form of sexual play.